1 thought on “Why are there more and more full -time mothers now?”
Zachary
I have been with a full -time baby for more than five years. At first, I took my baby because no one helped, so I had to bring it myself. Later, I realized the importance of family education to children's growth, and determined to accompany the child before elementary school. During this period, there was a confusion of relatives and friends, and my inner confusion was tangled, but I saw that the child grew up happily every day and had good behavior habits. All aspects were affirmed by teachers and friends.
The full -time mothers in recent years are indeed more and more, and many friends around them have suspended their career and choose to bring babies full -time before the baby goes to kindergarten. I summarize the reason, basically the following points:
1. Without the help of the elderly, you can only bring your own children.
The groups of full -time mothers for this reason are the most, which is a last resort. Now the cost of raising a baby is high, and the economic pressure of ordinary families is high. If someone at home helps to see the baby, in fact, many mothers also want to make money at work. On the one hand, they can give babies better material conditions. On the other hand A sense of security.
but reality is not so perfect, each family has its own difficulties. Some of the elderly have a job and have not retired; the elderly people of the multi -children must help other children to bring their children; or the elderly on both sides are not good, but they want to help but have to be weak, etc. I was like this at first, so I understood them very well.
. More parents began to pay attention to parent -child relationship and family education
In after 1980 and after 1990, they are increasingly realized that a person's healthy growth It is inseparable from childhood good family education. Now that information is developed, young people can learn scientific parenting knowledge from various channels. For example, the childcare concept of parenting is quite popular around me. After some considerations, most of the women suspended their work at home. Because of this reason, although there are not many proportion of full -time mothers, this trend is gradually increasing, and there will be more in the future.
. Family contradictions, especially the contradictions of mother -in -law.
The discord of personality concept, the differences in living habits are the causes of family contradictions. First of all, it is not difficult for women to do economic independence now. There is no need to wrong themselves to cater to the concepts and habits of their in -laws. Another young man's self -awareness has begun to enhance, and even if he lives with his biological parents, there is still a conflict. Young parents need their own independence space and their own affairs, so many people choose to bring their children to avoid being disturbed.
. The pressure of the work temporarily
The mothers are very few, but I exist around me. I have a friend who used to be a female elite in the financial industry, but the work pressure is huge, especially in interpersonal relationships. After giving birth to a child, she resigned directly at home, saying that taking the child to take a good rest, and found that the child was also exhausted into a dog, but at least he did not need to cope with the interpersonal relationship of intimensing, and his mentality was much easier.
It, I understand whether it is a full -time mother or a mothers in the workplace. No one is simply decided by patting the door. Most of them have been thoughtful. Everyone wants to do both family careers, but a person is not available. Think about it before the child is three years old, you must be accompanied by wholeheartedly, but also have a career that can make money. Superman.
If economic conditions permit, I am willing to be a full -time mother.
I am a person who has been a full -time mother and stepped into the workplace for a year. When I was in full -time, I took the children to work hard, but the family of three was together. contradiction.
. But it was limited to economic pressure, so he had to come out to work. The father -in -law came to bring the child. The family of five, three generations, and three generations of people. Under the eaves, the contradictions were full of energy. The father -in -law of the stubborn ancient board, the mother -in -law with many affection, even the husband can't stand it, but the mortgage car loan, children's education, elderly care, and unlimited expansion desires are pressed on our shoulders. Bring children.
This, but how long I desire a family of three to live clearly, and cook my son with all my heart.
This chicken soup text is advocating. Women need economic independence and do not be yellow -faced wives, but women are born with more family responsibilities. They are unwilling to be a shopkeeper. When you arrive at home, you are all your own affairs. Instead, you do n’t have your own time. Two o'clock a day, work with a baby, and you have to face the in -laws who can't get along with each other, and you are more tired!
The talk about my experience, I gave birth to two babies, Dabao was 3 years old, and Xiaobao was 1 year old and 3 months. Because I did n’t buy a house after marriage, I always lived with my parents. When I was Huai Dabao, I was still at work. My parents took care of me very carefully. Without retirement, I didn't want to give up my work, so I had to decorate another vacant house under my parents' name, and waited for my mother -in -law to help me live in the future.
It, the house was almost decorated when I gave birth to Dabao, only furniture. At this time, my mother -in -law came to take care of me as a confinement, because my mother -in -law is in the countryside, and there are many different living habits. She made excuses to return to my hometown without doing it. I could only bring it alone, and I was buying furniture one after another.
. Wait until my four -month maternity leave expires, and I have to return to the workplace. At this time, I have to pick up my mother -in -law because the confinement is unhappy. San Qi, wait until Dabao moved to move when he was half a year old. As a result, the mother -in -law took care of the whole day and said that he was uncomfortable, and called his aunt to help. As a result, the mother -in -law's family lived together. Under a roof, it is inevitable to bump. My mother -in -law is very slow and not good. My parents are a bit suspicious. My dad likes to do what my mother -in -law did again. My husband feels uncomfortable. My dad I refused to eat the meal I made by my mother -in -law. My mother had a meal of a few people in the family after work. My mother -in -law sat in the chat or watching TV. My mother was not happy in her heart. My husband was quarreling at home. When my mother -in -law saw us, we said that we all moved over now, and said that I had tried to ventilate at home for a few months. I was afraid that the baby was too young. I couldn't bear to worry about my parents, so I had to move to a new house.
Then the new house becomes my mother -in -law's own home. I don't care about these. As long as she helps me bring my children, my mother -in -law always likes to intervene in my husband and my parents before. She is not easy to speak. Now my parents are not there, everything is in charge, the problem is that she can't control my husband and come to care about me. I am also annoying. My husband is particularly low in emotional intelligence. I told him that I and my mother -in -law were before Some questions, I hope he helps to adjust it. He said that it has nothing to do with him, always escape, and when he says too much, he starts talking for her mother -in -law, saying that it is not easy for her to pull their brothers and sisters. God was looking for something, he was annoying. In this way, I have more and more contradictions with my husband.
It was a big treasure when I was one year old. I accidentally conceived Xiaobao. My relationship with my husband had just eased at that time. I thought that since the child comes, it is fate, and then my mother -in -law starts. Dabao is a girl, she said that let me check it, the boy wants it, the girl will not, her husband must know that it is not possible, but he is unwilling to say that his mother -in -law is not clear, and then the relationship with my mother -in -law is getting worse and worse. In the end, the second treasure was born, and she was a girl. My mother -in -law was naturally unhappy. But she is not very good. The place where my mother is at work is very close to my house. After Xiaobao was born, I brought Dabao and Xiaobao with my mother -in -law during the day. In the evening, my mother took Dabao. Bao, send it in the morning.
Because of the leave at home, my mother -in -law and I face to face every day. One go back. Either I brought it myself, I said I brought it myself, and she said I see how you bring two. Based on her words, I resigned and made a full -time mother. I took two children under three years old. The hard work really thought of crying, but I never wanted to ask her to come. I know If she is here, my husband and I will divorce sooner or later.
Is after full -time at home, my husband and I have a lot of better relationships. Although he is pressured to work alone, at least his mood is comfortable. He told her mother -in -law several times in the middle. He came, and he gave up the idea of living together.
It does not regret it after full -time, and it is really difficult to give up work, but for the stability of the family, I have to do this, and now my mother has retired. We keep the distance, and immediately wait for Dabao to go to kindergarten. I can also go out to find a job. The pressure of my husband can naturally be smaller, and the days will always be better.
Mles of my mother, few people who are full -time, more about the job at home after the middle -aged laid -off, and there are many young people around me who resigned at home as a full -time mother. The reasons are different, some Because the pregnancy is not smooth, I resign after preparing for pregnancy. I hope to fight in the workplace like a man, but children are more important in our hearts. We have to temporarily return to the family and set off when the opportunity is mature.
. I used to be a middle school teacher. The reason why I used to be a full -time mother now, Dabao is 8 years old and Xiaobao is less than 1 year old. When Huai Dabao, I worked until the day before giving birth to a child. Because it was difficult to give birth at that time, I started working during breastfeeding. But after giving birth to a child, there are really many conflicts with the family. Middle school is a place to pursue the rate of further studies. The students can not care about the home, and the family can not care about the students. But for the children, I still gave up decisively The so -called iron rice bowl, found a place where you can take your child to work. Xiaobao was born 7 years later, so I started to bring children full -time. Don't say that looking for a nanny, the current nanny is more than 10,000 in January, which is higher than my own salary. The elderly in the family cannot help bring their baby, but can only bring their children with all -time children. Women's creatures can give up everything for children and suffer all pain and helplessness!
I I am also full -time. Talk about my day, get up at 6.30 for breakfast, send children to school, buy food and clean, prepare for noon meals, 11.25 ready to pick up children from school, then lunch, clean up and wash Bowls, 1.30 send children to school to go home for a while, 3.30 pick up children from school, counsel homework, clean up the dishes for dinner, and finish these 9 o'clock. After that, the whole family looked at the TV chat together. When the 11 family was sleeping, they had to wash the clothes that the family replaced on the day. After finishing these, I have been waiting for me to sleep at more than 1 am. Not everyone is willing to be full -time, but the work at home always has to do it. The days are two people, and they can live better together.
In someone said, why are there more and more full -time mothers now?
I grew up in rural areas. Most children in the countryside have mothers and grandma, and they usually go out to work. I do n’t know when I was young, the children in the city brought big, and I did n’t know if the full -time mothers were really more and more.
. If, there are more and more full -time mothers now, I think it is a good phenomenon.
The family can be used as a full -time mother's family. The income of her husband can feed the whole family, otherwise women can't do a full -time wife at home.
The women who used to work before, I think there will be a lot of factors.
because men's income is not enough to support the family's expenses. Women can't help but pick up the elderly to see the child, or send the child back to their hometown to the elderly. The family is running normally.
If more and more full -time mothers, it means that more and more families can work normally by relying on the income of men alone.
At the same time, the child is accompanied by the mother, and the child's happiness index will increase. It's a good thing.
I have been with a full -time baby for more than five years. At first, I took my baby because no one helped, so I had to bring it myself. Later, I realized the importance of family education to children's growth, and determined to accompany the child before elementary school. During this period, there was a confusion of relatives and friends, and my inner confusion was tangled, but I saw that the child grew up happily every day and had good behavior habits. All aspects were affirmed by teachers and friends.
The full -time mothers in recent years are indeed more and more, and many friends around them have suspended their career and choose to bring babies full -time before the baby goes to kindergarten. I summarize the reason, basically the following points:
1. Without the help of the elderly, you can only bring your own children.
The groups of full -time mothers for this reason are the most, which is a last resort. Now the cost of raising a baby is high, and the economic pressure of ordinary families is high. If someone at home helps to see the baby, in fact, many mothers also want to make money at work. On the one hand, they can give babies better material conditions. On the other hand A sense of security.
but reality is not so perfect, each family has its own difficulties. Some of the elderly have a job and have not retired; the elderly people of the multi -children must help other children to bring their children; or the elderly on both sides are not good, but they want to help but have to be weak, etc. I was like this at first, so I understood them very well.
. More parents began to pay attention to parent -child relationship and family education
In after 1980 and after 1990, they are increasingly realized that a person's healthy growth It is inseparable from childhood good family education. Now that information is developed, young people can learn scientific parenting knowledge from various channels. For example, the childcare concept of parenting is quite popular around me. After some considerations, most of the women suspended their work at home. Because of this reason, although there are not many proportion of full -time mothers, this trend is gradually increasing, and there will be more in the future.
. Family contradictions, especially the contradictions of mother -in -law.
The discord of personality concept, the differences in living habits are the causes of family contradictions. First of all, it is not difficult for women to do economic independence now. There is no need to wrong themselves to cater to the concepts and habits of their in -laws. Another young man's self -awareness has begun to enhance, and even if he lives with his biological parents, there is still a conflict. Young parents need their own independence space and their own affairs, so many people choose to bring their children to avoid being disturbed.
. The pressure of the work temporarily
The mothers are very few, but I exist around me. I have a friend who used to be a female elite in the financial industry, but the work pressure is huge, especially in interpersonal relationships. After giving birth to a child, she resigned directly at home, saying that taking the child to take a good rest, and found that the child was also exhausted into a dog, but at least he did not need to cope with the interpersonal relationship of intimensing, and his mentality was much easier.
It, I understand whether it is a full -time mother or a mothers in the workplace. No one is simply decided by patting the door. Most of them have been thoughtful. Everyone wants to do both family careers, but a person is not available. Think about it before the child is three years old, you must be accompanied by wholeheartedly, but also have a career that can make money. Superman.
If economic conditions permit, I am willing to be a full -time mother.
I am a person who has been a full -time mother and stepped into the workplace for a year. When I was in full -time, I took the children to work hard, but the family of three was together. contradiction.
. But it was limited to economic pressure, so he had to come out to work. The father -in -law came to bring the child. The family of five, three generations, and three generations of people. Under the eaves, the contradictions were full of energy. The father -in -law of the stubborn ancient board, the mother -in -law with many affection, even the husband can't stand it, but the mortgage car loan, children's education, elderly care, and unlimited expansion desires are pressed on our shoulders. Bring children.
This, but how long I desire a family of three to live clearly, and cook my son with all my heart.
This chicken soup text is advocating. Women need economic independence and do not be yellow -faced wives, but women are born with more family responsibilities. They are unwilling to be a shopkeeper. When you arrive at home, you are all your own affairs. Instead, you do n’t have your own time. Two o'clock a day, work with a baby, and you have to face the in -laws who can't get along with each other, and you are more tired!
The talk about my experience, I gave birth to two babies, Dabao was 3 years old, and Xiaobao was 1 year old and 3 months. Because I did n’t buy a house after marriage, I always lived with my parents. When I was Huai Dabao, I was still at work. My parents took care of me very carefully. Without retirement, I didn't want to give up my work, so I had to decorate another vacant house under my parents' name, and waited for my mother -in -law to help me live in the future.
It, the house was almost decorated when I gave birth to Dabao, only furniture. At this time, my mother -in -law came to take care of me as a confinement, because my mother -in -law is in the countryside, and there are many different living habits. She made excuses to return to my hometown without doing it. I could only bring it alone, and I was buying furniture one after another.
. Wait until my four -month maternity leave expires, and I have to return to the workplace. At this time, I have to pick up my mother -in -law because the confinement is unhappy. San Qi, wait until Dabao moved to move when he was half a year old. As a result, the mother -in -law took care of the whole day and said that he was uncomfortable, and called his aunt to help. As a result, the mother -in -law's family lived together. Under a roof, it is inevitable to bump. My mother -in -law is very slow and not good. My parents are a bit suspicious. My dad likes to do what my mother -in -law did again. My husband feels uncomfortable. My dad I refused to eat the meal I made by my mother -in -law. My mother had a meal of a few people in the family after work. My mother -in -law sat in the chat or watching TV. My mother was not happy in her heart. My husband was quarreling at home. When my mother -in -law saw us, we said that we all moved over now, and said that I had tried to ventilate at home for a few months. I was afraid that the baby was too young. I couldn't bear to worry about my parents, so I had to move to a new house.
Then the new house becomes my mother -in -law's own home. I don't care about these. As long as she helps me bring my children, my mother -in -law always likes to intervene in my husband and my parents before. She is not easy to speak. Now my parents are not there, everything is in charge, the problem is that she can't control my husband and come to care about me. I am also annoying. My husband is particularly low in emotional intelligence. I told him that I and my mother -in -law were before Some questions, I hope he helps to adjust it. He said that it has nothing to do with him, always escape, and when he says too much, he starts talking for her mother -in -law, saying that it is not easy for her to pull their brothers and sisters. God was looking for something, he was annoying. In this way, I have more and more contradictions with my husband.
It was a big treasure when I was one year old. I accidentally conceived Xiaobao. My relationship with my husband had just eased at that time. I thought that since the child comes, it is fate, and then my mother -in -law starts. Dabao is a girl, she said that let me check it, the boy wants it, the girl will not, her husband must know that it is not possible, but he is unwilling to say that his mother -in -law is not clear, and then the relationship with my mother -in -law is getting worse and worse. In the end, the second treasure was born, and she was a girl. My mother -in -law was naturally unhappy. But she is not very good. The place where my mother is at work is very close to my house. After Xiaobao was born, I brought Dabao and Xiaobao with my mother -in -law during the day. In the evening, my mother took Dabao. Bao, send it in the morning.
Because of the leave at home, my mother -in -law and I face to face every day. One go back. Either I brought it myself, I said I brought it myself, and she said I see how you bring two. Based on her words, I resigned and made a full -time mother. I took two children under three years old. The hard work really thought of crying, but I never wanted to ask her to come. I know If she is here, my husband and I will divorce sooner or later.
Is after full -time at home, my husband and I have a lot of better relationships. Although he is pressured to work alone, at least his mood is comfortable. He told her mother -in -law several times in the middle. He came, and he gave up the idea of living together.
It does not regret it after full -time, and it is really difficult to give up work, but for the stability of the family, I have to do this, and now my mother has retired. We keep the distance, and immediately wait for Dabao to go to kindergarten. I can also go out to find a job. The pressure of my husband can naturally be smaller, and the days will always be better.
Mles of my mother, few people who are full -time, more about the job at home after the middle -aged laid -off, and there are many young people around me who resigned at home as a full -time mother. The reasons are different, some Because the pregnancy is not smooth, I resign after preparing for pregnancy. I hope to fight in the workplace like a man, but children are more important in our hearts. We have to temporarily return to the family and set off when the opportunity is mature.
. I used to be a middle school teacher. The reason why I used to be a full -time mother now, Dabao is 8 years old and Xiaobao is less than 1 year old. When Huai Dabao, I worked until the day before giving birth to a child. Because it was difficult to give birth at that time, I started working during breastfeeding. But after giving birth to a child, there are really many conflicts with the family. Middle school is a place to pursue the rate of further studies. The students can not care about the home, and the family can not care about the students. But for the children, I still gave up decisively The so -called iron rice bowl, found a place where you can take your child to work. Xiaobao was born 7 years later, so I started to bring children full -time. Don't say that looking for a nanny, the current nanny is more than 10,000 in January, which is higher than my own salary. The elderly in the family cannot help bring their baby, but can only bring their children with all -time children. Women's creatures can give up everything for children and suffer all pain and helplessness!
I I am also full -time. Talk about my day, get up at 6.30 for breakfast, send children to school, buy food and clean, prepare for noon meals, 11.25 ready to pick up children from school, then lunch, clean up and wash Bowls, 1.30 send children to school to go home for a while, 3.30 pick up children from school, counsel homework, clean up the dishes for dinner, and finish these 9 o'clock. After that, the whole family looked at the TV chat together. When the 11 family was sleeping, they had to wash the clothes that the family replaced on the day. After finishing these, I have been waiting for me to sleep at more than 1 am. Not everyone is willing to be full -time, but the work at home always has to do it. The days are two people, and they can live better together.
In someone said, why are there more and more full -time mothers now?
I grew up in rural areas. Most children in the countryside have mothers and grandma, and they usually go out to work. I do n’t know when I was young, the children in the city brought big, and I did n’t know if the full -time mothers were really more and more.
. If, there are more and more full -time mothers now, I think it is a good phenomenon.
The family can be used as a full -time mother's family. The income of her husband can feed the whole family, otherwise women can't do a full -time wife at home.
The women who used to work before, I think there will be a lot of factors.
because men's income is not enough to support the family's expenses. Women can't help but pick up the elderly to see the child, or send the child back to their hometown to the elderly. The family is running normally.
If more and more full -time mothers, it means that more and more families can work normally by relying on the income of men alone.
At the same time, the child is accompanied by the mother, and the child's happiness index will increase. It's a good thing.
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